May 06, 2016
Yes, back then, they used to be
emotional whose love wasn't for sale.
But in the 21st century: you'll agree
with me that anything can be sold...to
the Highest Bidder. Including their
love!
Witnessed different situations and
heard shocking things about this
subject and I think can write on it and
I will be @least, 85% correct.
How can you truly know a girl doesn't
truly love you? Seven ways only...
1. She never calls you until she has a
need.
Hmm, you have suddenly become 911.
Who said it's an abomination to call a
guy you care about? If she calls you
only when she needs money, she is a
gold-digger. Dump her! Simple! You're
not CBN, are you? The NEWest strategy now is: she calls after many
months and starts forming she cares
with the mind to ask for help in two
days time...Let the relationship be
platonic or...FWB. (Your choice tho).
But never be just a nice and generous friend EVEN when you know she
doesn't care and you love direly.
Health tip: Give yourself a break! Go
elsewhere before you're shown out or
have a heart attack!
2. She isn't interested in seeing your
siblings.
It's natural, if she likes you she would
not hesitate to want to meet your
siblings or parents. If all she wants is
you...hehehe, don't feel important. It's
not good enough. Marriage transcends
both of you. Reality exceed the couples. Some girls have already been
trained to be rebellious to their in-
laws- Watch out against such!
3. She threatens you with a breakup
after each argument.
Out of the abundance of the heart,
the mouth speaks. Don't you think it's
just a way she expresses her outburst.
Love doesn't threaten. If she makes
the mistake of saying it once or twice,
it might just be anger. But, constantly, haba! Leave her. Another
"club" is promising her luxurious and
wonderful things, that's why she
wants to leave your "club". That na
breakup scheme.
4. She never talks about saving- no
future with you..
Does she just spend and spend
without warning you to cut on your
spending habits? Some ladies are good
at that. When she wants a particular
shoe or bag, she doesn't mind you
withdrawing your last dime. She doesn't see a future with you. Love
plans and prepares. Leave her before
you wreck.
5. She lacks initiative to doing things
that really matter to you.
I do know that if you truly love
someone, you'll be initiative to doing
things for them. Mothers don't need a
push to buy new clothes for their
babies- Love at work. If she isn't
initiative concerning your lil issues, it's a sign she is about some other guy.
Don't be friend zoned, I beg you! She
enters your house and after eating,
can't wash her own plate. How can I
explain this? Simple initiative.
6. She loved your material things
MORE than your aspirations and
goals.
Hey, if what matters to her the most
is your money and not how you get it:
she doesn't care then. Don't marry
some one who has no pride at what you
do. If she doesn't like your job but
likes you, it can be managed BUT if she hates your vision/dreams, you can't
be forever compatible. It's like a
pastor marrying a witch. Hehe.
7. She lies to you to buy your trust.
I can beat my chest and say, 80% + of
girls lie. It's awful how one intends to
begin a relationship on lies. When a
girl you know very starts lying to your
face just to increase her "market
value"...it's laughable you know. Come clean. Nobody is perfect. Let's be
ourselves here. False identity is like
21st bras; they don't hold it up
forever. It will soon collapse.
In addition: If she is manipulative, be
careful. Eve extended the serpent's
manipulation on Adam and see us
today. Love doesn't manipulate. It
might explain itself but never
manipulate. The serpent is the most manipulative reptile. If she often seek
to manipulate you(If you are a MAN
sef, would she be doing that?), she
doesn't really love you. She thinks she
does. It's a selfish, conditional and
controlling love.
